Getting away from everything for a day really does make a difference!! - Me and my gorgeous husband-to-be took ourselves away from it all for one night.....had a few drinks and ended up reminiscing about when we first met. He told me he'd been thinking about it all recently cos he was wondering what to include in his speech at the wedding :-D
He said he can still remember how he felt as he looked up and saw me walk through his bar door......he said he'd already let me go once before and he told himself he couldn't let me go this time - he wouldn't.......He has told me before but I never tire of the story!!!!
We talked about life, children, the future, the wedding, the hassle.........its stupid cos when we are at home together, even though we see each other every day we don't tend to open up to each other as much as we do when we go away....(maybe the alcohol has something to do with it too.....) - But when away and relaxed we spend more time on having heart-to-hearts.
Our conclusion was that as much as the hassle continues - we knows its them that has the problem - not us - we can continue with our lives just the way we always have done. The nuisance isn't going to split us up, or cause problems between us, or get in the way......we can just ignore it as much as possible and refer things as they happen to "the file" or the police as we always have done - then forget about it..... The connection to the nuisance - obviously that will never disappear from our hearts and thoughts - we will think about the connection every single day for the rest of our lives (yes - both of us) - but the nuisance - well - like I said before.....its just an irritant.